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It is important to answer them honestly.
Before marriage should be treated seriously / photo ua.depositphotos.comMarriage is a serious step, and not all couples realize that a beautiful ceremony is a huge job.
Your Tango advises those who dream of a wedding, honestly ask yourself, do you really understand what is waiting ahead? It’s not just about romance, candlelight dinners and common plans for the future. These are also quarrels, unprocessed household chores, unexpected costs or desire to be alone after a difficult day.
Only those who can answer these eight questions without difficulty, are truly ready for family life:
1. Why do you want to get married?Someone seeks family comfort, someone – children, and for someone it is a natural development of relationships. Pew Research Center studies confirm that most people call the main causes of love and society. Is it worth asking yourself: is it a sincere desire or just a “logical step”?
2. What will marry you and what will you have to give up?Life together are compromises. You lose some freedom, because now you need to consider another person. But instead you get support, stability, one who will be in difficult times. Are you ready for this exchange?
3. How do you see the Marriage Institute?Your attitude may depend on your parents’ experience. If one of the partners has broken up, then the view of the couple may be more pessimistic. Studies in Journal of Family Psychology show that children from divorced families are more likely to consider marriage less stable and less promising.
4. What are your main life priorities?If the relationship and partner in this list are very high, it is a sign of readiness. But if in the first place friends, spending on yourself or entertainment, the union can start to shake before the wedding march. According to psychologists, true partnership requires self -discipline, awareness and ability to put each other in priority.
5. Are you ready to compromise and format “we” instead of “I”?Marriage means that personal problems and challenges become common. Are you ready to sacrifice your own comfort to support your partner? For example, to move to another city or to give up some of your plans for the sake of relationships?
6. Are you emotionally free for a serious relationship?Past images, unresolved stories, or even incomplete divorce may interfere. Before moving on, you need to honestly admit whether you have completed the previous stages of life and are ready to talk openly about “luggage” with your partner?
7. How do you understand that the moment has come for marriage?This issue often arises in those who are in a serious relationship. The answer is simple: when there is an inner desire to grow not only personally but also together. According to sociologists, those who are ready for marriage are tired of random dates and want stability.
8. Are you ready to voice your desire to find a partner for marriage honestly?Readiness for marriage is also manifested in the fact that a person is no longer ashamed to talk about his intentions. If you used to confess even to yourself that stability, now you openly declare it and discuss the future with your partner.
Earlier, UNIAN published 11 anxious phrases that can be heard from a woman when her feelings fade away and your relationship is destroyed.
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